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The Forgotten Realities of Men

Critical Reflections on Masculinity in Contemporary Society

Offers a rare glimpse into the often-overlooked aspects of men’s lives, set against the backdrop of shifting social norms, economic uncertainty, and the political upheaval of today’s world. 

The Forgotten Realities of Men explores the complexities of contemporary masculinity, providing an empathetic look at men’s lives while rejecting the politics of anger and resentment that often pit their challenges against those of women.

Through in-depth research, ethnographic analysis, and interviews with men themselves, the contributors shed light on aspects of men’s lived experiences that tend to be downplayed or overlooked: childhood sexual abuse, family violence, teenaged fatherhood, infertility, emotional expression, isolation and depression, cultures of fear in sports, and controversial online communities.

The Forgotten Realities of Men foregrounds the diverse circumstances characterizing men’s lives and illuminates their impact on physical and mental health, family dynamics, professional responsibilities, intimate relationships, and personal identity. By fostering respectful debate, this compassionate collection serves as a call for solutions to many pressing issues facing men today.

402 pages | 6 x 9 | © 2025

Gender and Sexuality

Sociology: General Sociology


Reviews

"The Forgotten Realities of Men is an important contribution to scholarship on men and masculinities that offers a critically nuanced account of male experiences in a variety of contexts."

Christopher E. Forth, author of Masculinity in the Modern West

"A timely book. The Forgotten Realities of Men provides fresh insight into different groups of men, how they make sense of their complicated worlds, and how this helps shape current theories of masculinity. I greatly enjoyed reading it."

Alan White, professor emeritus of men’s health, Leeds Beckett University

Table of Contents

Understanding the Forgotten Realities of Men: New Approaches to the Lived Experience of Masculinity / Marc Lafrance and Pauline Hoebanx

Part 1: Men in Distress – Mental Health, Hardship, and Resilience

1 Men and Infertility: Centring Experience and Managing Vulnerability / Brendan Gough and Esmée Hanna

2 Sometimes You Just Need to be Heard: Social Support for Black College Men / Allura Casanova and Daphne C. Watkins

3 Suffering in Silence: Men and the Lived Experience of Depression / Jean-Martin Deslauriers, Pauline Hoebanx, and Lilian Negura

Part 2: Men as Victims – Stigma, Trauma, and Marginalization

4 Transcending Taboo: Understanding the Realities of Male Sexual Abuse Victims / Natacha Godbout, Cloé Canivet, Mathilde Baumann, Mylène Fernet, and Audrey Brassard

5 Moving beyond Stigma: Re-examining the Lives of Teenage Fathers / Mark S. Kiselica

6 Rethinking Domestic and Family Violence: The Experiences of Indigenous Men / Renée Brassard, Myriam Spielvogel, and Lisa Ellington

Part 3: Men and Isolation – Health, Well-Being, and Rural Life

7 Real Farmers, Real Men? Negotiating the Paradoxes of Masculinities, Health, and Well-Being in Agricultural Work / Philippe Roy, Gilles Tremblay, Steve Robertson, and Marie-Philippe Collin

8 Off the Map: Rural Men, Isolation, and Health / Murray Drummond, Sam Elliott, Claire Drummond, and James Smith

9 Surviving Disaster: Help Seeking among Senior Men after a Major Earthquake / Oscar Labra, Danielle Maltais, and Gabriel Gingras Lacroix

Part 4: Men and Manhood – Culture, Media, and Sexual Politics

10 Lads, Medical Experts, and Carers: How Men Talk about Penis Concerns in Online Forums / Craig Owen and Christine Campbell

11 Pickup Artists, Hetero

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